September 2013

Have you experienced an interruption in delivery? Some subscribers have; others, not so much. If you would let me know if you’ve had an issue, either in the comments or by e-mail, that would help. I have two different providers…

For some time, now, I’ve regularly collected images I find hot and posted them on my Tumblr, and put the most recent few such images on this blog, over there, to the right and down…. For a while, I mixed…

There are doms who derive pleasure from bending subs to their will. (And there are submissives who derive pleasure from being so “bent,” from traveling a distance to their doms’ desires, from being compelled to travel that distance by their…

Part 2: Buying a pack Down that vortex, I’ve made whatever compromises with myself I need to cross the threshold, to buy the pack. This part of the process is unpleasant all around. Except for the impending fulfillment. As I…

She sits across from me. She wears yoga pants and a tank top. She’s 25, maybe 30, brunette. No wedding ring. She writes, almost frantically, in a notebook. (Lists, it looks like.) She has a slightly manic look in her…

A loyal reader asked me recently about loneliness, and I tossed off a quick response: “… in general, I don’t think of loneliness as one of my key issues.” Predictably, within a few hours of sending that e-mail, I began…

From time to time, T and I have met people using CraigsList. We have placed a variety of ads, but they span a pretty narrow range, generally communicating a bit about who and how we are, and a bit about…

I’m kind of a dominant guy. If you read about my sexual encounters, or about some of the instructions I like to give, you can’t miss it. But, as I’ve written before, I’m not sure that I’m a “Dom,” whatever…

If you can keep your head when all about you       Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,   If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,    But make allowance for their doubting too;   If you can wait…