Month
June 2012
46 posts
Frisky friday #2
Read moreIt’s Frisky Friday. Please post your original work – photos, videos, audio, words, sculpture, what have you – anything about sex or sexuality. DumbDomme designed this awesome badge – please put it on your post, and link to https://mydissolutelife.com/frisky-friday. Thanks!…
Trust and distant buddies (ii)
Read moreEstablishing trust with distant buddies, women I’ve never met and may never meet, can be a challenge.
In silence
Read moreA twelve-minute, wordless fuck.
My new banner
Read moreYou like? Thanks to DumbDomme. She has mad graphics skilz, and gave me this. She gave me a couple of others, too, and I may cycle them through my headers for a few days. If you have a preference among…
On distance, virtual relationships, and trust (i)
Read moreI was chatting the other day with Liza, and she asked me about the evolution of my “distant buddy” relationships – how they have started, what their progression has been, and, in particular, how they have grown from being purely…
Porn: seeking vs. finding
Read moreThere are a couple of different forms my porn-surfing takes: 1) Purposeful: I’m going to rub one out, and I want visual stimulation. In this instance, typically, I watch a movie that I’ve downloaded from a favorite site. As I’ve…
Female personal trainer sought
Read moreThis is the ad I placed that resulted in my hiring my two trainers (and having a terrific time interviewing a bunch of others): I’m an attractive, driven, professional, successful man. There’s a gaping hole in my life: I can’t…
On strip clubs
Read moreBack in the day, I spent untold hours in strip clubs. I’ve written about it here and here. In my “sober” life – in the time since then, I’ve spent almost no time in strip clubs. Dan Savage once said,…
Talking dirty
Read moreSome months ago, Liza and I were chatting about writing ideas, and I suggested she write about something that turns most people on, but that doesn’t work for her. I think that the post that followed was this one, but I’m…
How to handle my cock
Read moreSoon, you will have my cock in your hands, in your mouth. I will have my mouth on your cunt, my fingers inside of you. I can’t wait. Will you tell me, in advance, what you like, what you don’t,…