More, on cheating – and judgment
The hottest girl in the world (THGITW), other than my wife, had her own reply to my post the other[…]
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Thinks I think
Rape fantasies
I have a friend. Like many women – like most women I know, horrifyingly – she’s been raped. Like even[…]
Read morePolyamory and swinging
Dan Savage wrote a column last week arguing, forcefully, that polyamory isn’t a sexual orientation. This seems to me akin to[…]
Read moreSex and death
I wrote the other day about how I sometimes use porn (and, incidentally, used commercial sex) not when I’m feeling[…]
Read morePetite chicks
I love ’em tiny. Some while back, I wrote about my insane, unquenchable, out-of-the-blue hunger for a redhead. Any redhead.[…]
Read morePorn and desire
Porn’s funny. Conventional wisdom holds that we use porn when we’re horny. But this isn’t quite right, I think. I[…]
Read moreLife is so fragile; happy Thanksgiving
I sat in Starbucks putting the final touches on a gift for T. A woman ran in and in a[…]
Read moreAnd the beat goes on….
Sometimes, events in one’s life have a heft, a magnitude, an awesomeness, such that it simply feels inconceivable that life[…]
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