Hi, I’m N, and I’m an addict…
Am I a “sex addict”? Is there such a thing? Is it a meaningful term? One reader delights in calling me a sex addict. What do I have to say about it?
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Thinks I think
Safer sex, the last installment
I have a casual attitude toward sexually transmitted infections. And, with one exception, during Bill Clinton’s first term, I’ve never had one.
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Safer sex (redux)
I have had a lot of sex with a lot of people, some of whom I’ve barely known. I get tested. And I don’t stress. Here’s how I think about the risks of sex.
Read moreOpen relationship mini-quiz
There’s a little “open relationship mini-quiz” that’s been making the internet rounds lately. It showed up here, and here. I[…]
Read moreShe spreads her legs…
There’s something about the image of a woman spreading her legs – clothed – for me that is about the[…]
Read moreMore, on cheating – and judgment
The hottest girl in the world (THGITW), other than my wife, had her own reply to my post the other[…]
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Rape fantasies
I have a friend. Like many women – like most women I know, horrifyingly – she’s been raped. Like even[…]
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