Responsiveness
Sofia and I were talking about responsiveness. She doesn’t come easily with men, and imagined that this meant she was,[…]
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Thinks I think
Compliance (re)defined
In the context of erotic writing, compliance means, simply, “Doing as I ask.” But in reality? It’s somewhat more nuanced.[…]
Read moreOn compliance
Compliance is such a turn-on for me. Imperfect compliance is such a turn-off. Some doms get off on, really enjoy,[…]
Read more“An admitted sex addict”
On three recent occasions, people have described me as “an admitted sex addict,” or some variant of that. Close readers[…]
Read moreThe Lady Vanishes (or, “Kids today….”)
I wrote about how deftly Tinder handles rejection in my original paean to the app. If you haven’t used Tinder,[…]
Read moreA thought to ponder
“There is no such thing as sexual competition, there is only the continual coming to terms with the fact that[…]
Read moreTinder strategies, part 2 – contact after matching
Tinder’s funny. Each person has up to six photos and about 200 characters in which to communicate enough about herself[…]
Read moreTinder strategies, part 1 – swiping
1) Swipe everyone to the right. Don’t bother looking, even. Less than 1% of women swipe me right anyway –[…]
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