Dominance and maturity
I’m a lot like a four-year-old. Sure, I say I’m “dominant.” And yes, it looks that way. But that’s mainly[…]
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Thinks I think
Anonymity and Tinder
My Tinder account has zero functionality. Facebook figured out that N. Likes doesn’t exist. Tinder figured it out. They’re on[…]
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Rules for distant buddies – and local subs
These are just a few of my basic rules for distant buddies – or, if you prefer, online sex partners.
Read moreIntimidation (cont’d.)
The other day, I wrote about how a woman with whom I’ve been flirting on Tinder called me “intimidating.” Here[…]
Read moreIntimidation
More on this soon, but…. A woman with whom I’ve been corresponding on Tinder recently told me she finds me[…]
Read moreNot yes, but not no
On another day, I’ll write more about why, but…. Never say “no” to me. I’m neither a tyrant nor unreasonable.[…]
Read moreOn speaking my mind
A few times since I started this blog, I’ve written something that really pissed people off. Ironically – given that[…]
Read moreResponsiveness
Sofia and I were talking about responsiveness. She doesn’t come easily with men, and imagined that this meant she was,[…]
Read moreCompliance (re)defined
In the context of erotic writing, compliance means, simply, “Doing as I ask.” But in reality? It’s somewhat more nuanced.[…]
Read moreOn compliance
Compliance is such a turn-on for me. Imperfect compliance is such a turn-off. Some doms get off on, really enjoy,[…]
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