February 2015

Walking past a porn store, I remember the soul-crushing hours I spent in places like it, gazing at box covers in a dissociative haze, searching for a fix that would never come.

A submissive guy writes to me, marveling at how “easy” it all seems. I set him straight, and then turn to you for help.

Sofia asked me what I think motivates her. I took a stab at it — not so you can know her, but so you can know how I think about her.