August 2013

On secrecy, privacy, parental spying, and Edward Snowden.

Some hard-won lessons about lying, value, and the different games men and women play at the juncture of sex and money.

I struggle with whether creep shots are violating of women’s privacy. I decide to behave as if they are, but I remain unconvinced….

A young woman walks ahead of me, and I am grateful for every step.

What these women want isn’t me — it’s what I want.