2012

There are a couple of different forms my porn-surfing takes: 1)  Purposeful: I’m going to rub one out, and I want visual stimulation. In this instance, typically, I watch a movie that I’ve downloaded from a favorite site.  As I’ve…

This is the ad I placed that resulted in my hiring my two trainers (and having a terrific time interviewing a bunch of others): I’m an attractive, driven, professional, successful man. There’s a gaping hole in my life: I can’t…

Back in the day, I spent untold hours in strip clubs.  I’ve written about it here and here.  In my “sober” life – in the time since then, I’ve spent almost no time in strip clubs.  Dan Savage once said,…

Some months ago, Liza and I were chatting about writing ideas, and I suggested she write about something that turns most people on, but that doesn’t work for her.  I think that the post that followed was this one, but I’m…

Soon, you will have my cock in your hands, in your mouth.  I will have my mouth on your cunt, my fingers inside of you. I can’t wait. Will you tell me, in advance, what you like, what you don’t,…

You know it – it’s that “optional” comma at the end of a list.  “I went to the bar last night with Jim, John, and Sue.”  It’s that comma between “John” and “and.” There’s not a “correct” answer as to…

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The first Frisky Friday Each Friday, I will host submissions to “Frisky Friday.”  The rules are simple:  whatever original material pertaining in some way to sex you produce – written, spoken, photographed, drawn, moaned, filmed – that you want to…

When the Anthony Weiner scandal came down a while back, I participated in a conversation among some septuagenarian men about the whole thing. There were gay and straight participants in the conversation, and unanimity on one point: Weiner must be…