Just like that, she's evaporated.
My wife, you see, has seen pictures of her (because she sent them to me, to an account I had told her my wife reads). She wanted to see pictures of my wife in return. ("It's only fair," she said.)
I refused. For a bunch of reasons, some practical/privacy-related, others simply principled. The bottom line, I guess, is that life ISN'T fair. So she's gone….