Thinking about “the talk”
I’m thinking about “the talk,” you know, the one parents supposedly have with their kids about sex. I’m working on[…]
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Thinks I think
Unfamiliar feelings
Sex and aggression: I’ve always had a hard time with these two drives. I’ve always strived to get in touch[…]
Read moreMeta-creep shot
I sat down next to him to see him furtively aiming his phone’s camera at the two women sitting across[…]
Read moreObjectification and narcissism
I was raised, as I’ve often written, to believe that objectifying women was simply wrong. This confused me, and left[…]
Read moreEbbs and flows
You knew I was a geek, right? Well, the last couple of weeks, lots has been going on in my[…]
Read moreDominance and maturity
I’m a lot like a four-year-old. Sure, I say I’m “dominant.” And yes, it looks that way. But that’s mainly[…]
Read moreAnonymity and Tinder
My Tinder account has zero functionality. Facebook figured out that N. Likes doesn’t exist. Tinder figured it out. They’re on[…]
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Rules for distant buddies – and local subs
These are just a few of my basic rules for distant buddies – or, if you prefer, online sex partners.
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