Soon [and by “soon,” I mean, of course, ten years ago], I will fuck [she asked me not to use her – or any – name].

A week or so ago, she wrote me, “If I’m trying to read fast to get a sense of a thing that doesn’t need to be too specific, sometimes I read every other line (certain genres this works with best). Doing so in The Ethical Slut, I came across a nice little found poem that seems to sum it up pretty well….

Remember that there are many good ways to

makes you safe from hard feelings – your ability

whatever structure you choose, hold it fairly

you, you are.”

Exactly.

This is the best way to read this book.

Thank you, [insert name here], for showing me how best to read it.