Year
2013
398 posts
On men (part 2)
Read moreI recently wrote about the somewhat surprising prominence men have in my retellings of my sexual adventures. They have the ability to make a sexual adventure super-charged, and they have the ability to shrivel my dick, even while it’s being…
Cultural sexual hegemony and me, #1 – big breasts
Read moreThis is the first in a series of posts about ways that I’m a little different from what I understand to be the sexual “norm” (to the extent there is one). I like breasts. A lot. I like them big…
The gangbang (stag at a sex party, part 3)
Read moreThere was a birthday to be celebrated. There was a cake, and candles. After round one of fucking, the cake was brought out, the song was sung. It was explained that, for her birthday, earlier that day, the birthday girl…
On men
Read moreI like women. A lot. Maybe too much. I like seeing them, discovering them, talking to them, getting to know them, looking at them, touching them, feeling them touch me, using them sexually, giving them pleasure, taking pleasure from them.…
Holidays, vacation, etc.
Read moreI hope you’re enjoying yourself. I am! In recent days, I’ve gone whitewater rafting, done a zip line/ropes course, and had a ton of (awesome) family time. Next up – a trip across the pond for two weeks. My postings…
Truth and memory at a sex party (stag at a sex party, part 2)
Read moreI pulled my boxers on, leaped over the ottoman between Bill and Ginny and the bed, walked past Ofri and Michelle, fucking away, into the living room. There, I saw Moshe and Shuli, a Hasidic couple. Were they the same…
Stag at a sex party, part 1
Read moreSome years ago, before I had ever had sanctioned sex outside our marriage, I visited The F Club in London. We were, at the time, planning our first visit to a sex club or party (I don’t now remember if…
T, in pictures
Read moreI don’t often write here about my wife. I have, in the past, written just a tiny bit about her. This is, mostly, in keeping with her preferences. She’s private. She didn’t decide to write a blog – I did.…
Change is hard
Read moreIf you’ve been paying attention, and you know me (and you have, and you do), you may have noticed a certain… intensity… and bitterness in some recent posts. A level of negativity that’s a little out of character for me.…
Online dating and personals
Read moreFerns, over at Domme Chronicles, recently posted about writing a personal ad. And I was struck by something. Her ad is a particularly well written, comic, standard ad. About two-thirds of the words concern the man she seeks, and about…