Year
2013
398 posts
Enthusiastic new readers
Read moreI love them. Here I am, on vacation not writing, just having a great time, and my stats tell me just how much I resonate to new readers. That’s just gravy for me. Welcome, new readers!
Enjoying myself
Read moreI wrote, recently, about a complicated and interesting (to me, at least) night at a sex party. A reader asked me, in an e-mail, if I had “enjoyed” myself at the party, and it got me to thinking. Part of…
Far from home
Read moreI’m winding up a family vacation – five days left on a long trip. We’re in a small town, not far from a big one. We have spotty internet, and busy days. And I seem to have lost my computer…
Cultural sexual hegemony and me, #5 – moaning
Read more“Female copulatory vocalization.” You know, chicks making noise during sex. When I paid for massages, some of the (less favored, by me) women I saw would, while standing adjacent to me, my cock in their hand, inexplicably start moaning as…
Cultural sexual hegemony and me, #4 – blowjobs
Read moreI googled “Best oral sex video ever,” and this is what I found. This is not how I like my cock sucked. I’ve written lots about how I like it sucked, about how I like to be teased, licked, kissed,…
Cultural sexual hegemony and me, #3 – fucking
Read more“The act” “Consummation” “Home run” “Fucking” All of the language describing penis-in-vagina intercourse suggests that it is the point. For many, for most, it is. For me, it’s not.
Paean
Read moreShe’s short – maybe 4’11”. She wears tragically stonewashed jeans. Her tank top, over big, round c-cup breasts, reads “NERD” in huge letters, and her black, lacy bra is visible through the armpits. Her skin is darker than white, lighter…
Paean
Read moreShe stands, legs spread, her back to me. Brown worn leather boots. A white sheer miniskirt with floral patterns hides, but just barely, the outline of her black thong. She wears a black leotard, her fuschia bra straps poking out…
Cultural sexual hegemony and me, #2 – nudity
Read moreI’m not a big fan of nudity. Don’t get me wrong: I think a naked body (male or female) is a thing of beauty, and I like to look at them. But a nude body rarely excites me. No. What…
Trying to see my blog in london
Read moreNot possible at Starbucks. In the States, we have no such restrictions. I’m so sorry. I had no idea.