Month
July 2013
28 posts
Enjoying myself
Read moreSex is my breath: endlessly complex, always with me, and not really about enjoyment.
Far from home
Read moreFive days left on vacation, no charger, spotty internet, and I don’t really mind.
Cultural sexual hegemony and me, #5 – moaning
Read moreThe best moans are the ones you’re trying to suppress.
Cultural sexual hegemony and me, #4 – blowjobs
Read morePorn gets blowjobs wrong, and I have opinions about how.
Cultural sexual hegemony and me, #3 – fucking
Read moreFucking isn’t the point. The sentence is more interesting than the period at the end of it.
Paean
Read moreA short, curvy woman on the subway, and everything I noticed.
Paean
Read moreShe’s standing at the pastry case, but she’s not just evaluating pastries.
Cultural sexual hegemony and me, #2 – nudity
Read moreWhat excites me isn’t nudity — it’s the distance between clothed and nude, and the slow, deliberate closing of that distance.
Trying to see my blog in london
Read moreApparently, in London, Starbucks considers me a public health hazard.
On men (part 2)
Read moreMen have the ability to supercharge a sexual adventure, and they have the ability to shrivel my dick. The psychology of both is more similar than you might think.