2012

If you missed the SNL/Amazon ad for Fifty Shades of Grey, watch it – it’s fucking hysterical.

In a couple of recent posts, I’ve written about “paid dating,” or “compensated dating.” I have a tag that is “commercial sex.” A reader asked if I wasn’t just sugar-coating what is, in fact, prostitution, by using other words. The…

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I haven’t addressed this burning question. A while back, the Breeder did. He hates 69ing. And it got me to thinking. At the time, I started a post on the subject, but more pressing matters distracted me, and I never…

A couple of the comments on my recent post on paid dating (a.k.a. prostitution) took me to task for “haggling” on a “date.” I fear I was unclear about either the general way such dates work, or what happened on…

I had a couple more thoughts after writing this post. First, I realize that in one little phrase – “if we hit it off” – I skipped over a giant portion of the process of reaching a mutually beneficial arrangement.…

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I’ve been thinking about the phenomenon of relapses, of slips, among addicts. It’s a very rare addict who doesn’t have a slip (or seven) on the road to recovery. I was lucky enough that my “addiction” was to a behavior,…

Some time ago, I wrote a bit about how trust evolves in virtual relationships. I thought I’d write a bit about how it evolves in commercial sex (or at least, how it did for me), since I suspect that’s actually an…

Today, someone in Miami (you know who you are) discovered my blog, and read 28 pages. I fucking LOVE it when someone finds something seriously compelling, seriously diverting, here. Even though I don’t know this person, I feel totally validated…