My dominance allows you to disavow your desire. You give me what I ask not because you want it, but because you want to please me.
If I want you to come for me, your orgasm is the orgasm not of a naughty, dirty, bad girl, but rather, of an obedient, virtuous, good girl.
But what of generosity in this context? Can you freely give that which you know I will enjoy without being asked? Or does doing so deprive you of the safety that being asked affords you?
Excerpt: If I ask you to give me gifts, can you do so while remaining my good girl? Or have I created an inescapable trap?