Hyacinth wrote an excellent post recently on the challenges of writing a sex blog and living a life – keeping the blog secret from the people from whom it’s supposed to be secret, telling those you want to tell, and sharing the right amount of information all around. Her post seems to have been in [...]
I want to fulfill it. I want to be everything to you, everything you’ve ever wanted, everything you’ve ever dreamed of, everything you’ll ever need. You want me to fuck you from behind for hours? I want to do that to you, for you. You want me to lick your pussy for days? I want [...]
I hear you worrying. Can I write something that will turn him on? (“Can I write erotica that will turn him on?” I think I heard you ask.) I worry the same thing. Largely because I don’t write erotica. The closest I come is posts like yesterday’s, in which I wrote about a fantasy. One [...]
Hyacinth (to my knowledge, the only other blogger with “Dissolute” in the name of her blog) confessed to crushing on me recently. I returned the compliment, first in a comment to a post, and then in an aside in a post of my own. But here, I’m doing it in its own, full fledged, post: [...]
A wise reader, and good friend, suggested my writing could stand some reduction, that I use big words and end up being unclear. She’s smart, and I’m sure she’s right. She gave me a challenge: If I ever feel the need to use a word of seven letters or more, she said, I shouldn’t. And [...]
I write this blog. Some people read it. It’s intimate, self-disclosing, ruminative. I write about what I think and what I do. Inevitably, people who read the blog think they know me. And sometimes, even more oddly, imagine I know them. This can be benign, positive even: I value this – I value this sense [...]
I dashed into the library, a few minutes to kill between appointments, and I sat myself at the “Charging Station,” the place where those of us with phones, laptops, and suffering from the deficiencies of battery life. The dude next to me has two laptops, two portable hard drives, and a lot more equipment. What’s [...]
V and I recently had a date. It was hot. You’ll read about it in due time. I just finished my part 1, she just finished her part 1. They’re very different. They focus on different parts of the first part of the evening, and they have a very different perspective. And yet, they are [...]
In my eternal, narcissistic quest to learn what you (readers) like, what you don’t like, I’m trying a new plug-in on the blog that lets you “rate” everything – posts, comments. I would really appreciate it if you (especially regular readers, but also first-time visitors) took the time just to hit the stars under each [...]
I just wrote about how I don’t really like writing about sex. But this isn’t exactly right. Many of my posts about sex are in two or more parts – part 1 typically covers the part of the evening that leads up to the sex, and then part 2 is the sex itself. In some [...]
