See below, but with one modification: Each woman masturbates in proximity to a man, not her partner, who cums on her.
Circle jerks never appealed to me. They seemed like a sort of simultaneously homoerotic and homophobic phenomenon. But now – as a straight, adventurous, adult – the idea of a coed circle jerk – one done with a little taste, and subtlety? That sounds hot. Let’s get a group of four or five couples together […]
The men: we (all) wear jeans, tight t-shirts. The women: you (all) wear tiny black dresses, black thongs, black thigh-highs, black shoes. There are four couples. We’ve never met. We gather for drinks at 9 pm. The men talk in one group. And assign the numbers “1” to “4” to each of the men. […]
Join us for a debauched night of fun. We are looking for two other couples. Our intent is to pre-approve one another via e-mail, exchanging only accurate body photos and verbal descriptions, and then to “meet” in a dark bar with bathrooms ideal for one-on-one encounters. We will not speak. Each couple will wear a […]
In my New Year’s Resolution post a year ago, and again yesterday, I mentioned “high-concept swinging” as a goal. A couple of readers asked just what I meant by that. Sorry – I was talking to myself when I wrote it, imagining you would know exactly what I meant when what I mean isn’t at […]
There’s a little “open relationship mini-quiz” that’s been making the internet rounds lately. It showed up here, and here. I thought I’d tackle it as well for your reading pleasure. 1. What insight about open relationships do you wish you had when you started? 2. What has been the hardest thing about opening your relationship, […]
Dan Savage wrote a column last week arguing, forcefully, that polyamory isn’t a sexual orientation. This seems to me akin to “presenting both sides of the evolution debate,” granting some basic structural plausibility to a ridiculous assertion, the mere speaking aloud of which grants it more legitimacy than it ever should enjoy. Rather than add my […]
One of the challenges of swinging, or polyamory, or non-monogamy, or monogamish-ness, is the simple impossibility of symmetry. I just started to write a post on the subject – about how sometimes T gets more of what she wants than I do; sometimes, it’s the other way around. About how, on any given night in […]
Continuation of this post, featuring Jen and Mara. So back we went – we picked up our clothes and shuffled out of the dark little room in which we’d begun fucking and sucking and licking one another. Mara apologized to me: “I felt sort of bad, fucking him before we’ve even fucked – it’s sort […]
I find myself remembering something from long ago as I go down on Mara…. It’s the taste of an Israeli pussy.