Aug 202015
 

Here’s a recent exchange I had with someone who prefers to remain nameless: Her: Today I’ve found myself thinking about things that could happen [when we meet]… Me: Good girl. Tell me. Her: Where we’ll meet (hopefully I won’t know anyone). What you’ll ask me to do when we’re out (go to the bathroom and […]

Jan 152015
 

Even when maintaining eye contact, our eyes move around a fair amount. If I look at someone’s eyes, and she looks at mine, both sets of eyes move about quite a bit, even as we look at one another fixedly. If my green eyes – green, with little flecks of orange in them – lock […]

Dec 022014
 

I’ve entered into a relationship. It’s great. It hits every level of satisfaction except sexually. I’m frustrated and unsure of where to go from here…. It’s unsatisfying for both of us. To me, it feels forced. He is extremely attractive..a catch, smart, business owner-blah blah blah but down to earth and relatable.  He would get […]

Jul 152014
 

In the context of erotic writing, compliance means, simply, “Doing as I ask.” But in reality? It’s somewhat more nuanced. Here are some things it’s not: Blind obedience. Abandonment of principles. Never saying “no.” I acknowledge that I may have contradicted some of these principles in previous of my writings. When I have done so, […]

Jul 032014
 

Compliance is such a turn-on for me. Imperfect compliance is such a turn-off. Some doms get off on, really enjoy, training their subs. I don’t. I have nothing against – enjoy, even, working with a woman who’s learning about (her) submission. But training implies a certain level of… resistance… on the part of the submissive. […]

Jun 182014
 
Dom-ly-ness (or, meet the Rockette)

Version 1 I didn’t give the Rockette what I’d led her to expect. We’d never met, or spoken. She was dressed as I’d asked, and prepared to do precisely as I asked. She expected I would use her. Wordlessly. At great length. I had encouraged her to expect this, had told her it was coming. […]