I have no idea if I have herpes. I’ve never had an outbreak. But I assume I’ve been exposed. You should assume the same, I imagine….
Apr 132015
Jan 212015
Withdrawal is a suprisingly effective method of birth control. In spite of precum.
Jan 202015
Did you think withdrawal was an ineffective method of birth control? Would you believe it’s about as effective as condoms?
Dec 302012
Courtesy of L:
Dec 262012
Apparently, I underestimated how people would react if I questioned their monogamy. I won’t make that mistake again.
Dec 232012
I think that if we compare the risks associated with sex to the rewards it brings us, we’ll find that we do a really poor job of decision-making.
Dec 222012
In which I foolhardily attack other people’s monogamy. And their “monogamy.” By wondering just how many people who think themselves monogamous really are.
Dec 212012
Am I a “sex addict”? Is there such a thing? Is it a meaningful term? One reader delights in calling me a sex addict. What do I have to say about it?
Dec 212012
I have a casual attitude toward sexually transmitted infections. And, with one exception, during Bill Clinton’s first term, I’ve never had one.
Dec 202012
I have had a lot of sex with a lot of people, some of whom I’ve barely known. I get tested. And I don’t stress. Here’s how I think about the risks of sex.