The very first porn I remember seeing was in a friend’s “clubhouse.” Ironically, the magazine was a “Club.” This friend was notable primarily for his insistence that, though his birthday was November 1, his real birthday was October 31, but his mom had had him “pushed back in” so that he wouldn’t have Halloween for [...]
The good people at n+1 magazine – a recent discovery of T’s, and now mine – are conducting some research: We’re exploring what it means—if anything—that people now encounter sex on the internet at early ages. We’d like to hear from you about the change from a world where sexually explicit depictions were less accessible [...]
Just look at this. It’s a thing of beauty. Let’s just move, slowly, from left to right in the picture. First, her arms, hooked back behind her, holding on to the chair, holding her up, preventing her from sliding forward, arching her back, forcing her breasts forward, up. Then? Her eyes. Shut. She’s utterly transported. [...]
There’s something about the image of a woman spreading her legs – clothed – for me that is about the most arousing thing I can imagine. This afternoon, I had some writing (not blog-related) to do. I got a fair amount done, but in my procrastinatory interludes, I discovered a new feature of one of [...]
I wrote the other day about how I sometimes use porn (and, incidentally, used commercial sex) not when I’m feeling intense sexual desire, but when I’m deep on the opposite side of the desire spectrum, when I’m feeling pain, numb, or worse, almost dead. I’ve been thinking more about this, entertaining a counterintuitive – and, [...]
Porn’s funny. Conventional wisdom holds that we use porn when we’re horny. But this isn’t quite right, I think. I mean, I know it’s not quite right for me, and I suspect it’s not right for many. I use porn in a couple of different ways. One way – with a partner – is the closest [...]
The other day, I wrote about the California Pimp site. I had forgotten, at the time, that the site also went by the name “Netvideogirls.” A little googling, though, and I came across this video, which captures all of what I both hate(d) and love(d) about this site. This video was up when I first [...]
This is the second part in my ongoing (and recurrent) series on my tastes in porn. The first part concerned my enthusiasm for movies of women masturbating to orgasm. I mentioned a few sites that I particularly like (The Life Erotic, I Feel Myself, Digital Desires). In this post, I’ll discuss the sites I like [...]
My Tumblr‘s been overflowing lately. I’ve spent too much idle time trolling through Google Reader and Tumblr to find hot pictures to share with you. My porn tastes tend to be pretty constant (as do my tastes in women – I prefer tiny, natural women, more often with wavy or curly hair than straight). The [...]
We all love him, right? I mean, what’s not to love. He’s cute, sexy, and he fucks like nobody’s business. I wrote about him once before, but it’s time to revisit him. GQ just wrote a great big profile of him, and I figure, if GQ’s writing about him, I probably should too. Even if, [...]
