Approach, avoid continues, and I’m reminded of Poison – and my reaction to her. Poison, for those who missed her, is the woman who, years ago, set off the reaction that led to my understanding that I’m an addict. When a woman shows interest in me, my body goes into overdrive. Almost inevitably – at […]
If you’ve spent a lot of time in therapy (or maybe just if you pay attention to yourself a lot), you’re familiar with the following phenomenon: the situations, relationships, behaviors, which you tell yourself you most want to avoid, you most fear, dislike, etc., are, seemingly coincidentally, the things toward which you most frequently gravitate. […]
Warning – this is a non-sexual post. It’s non-erotic, and not a turn-on at all. If that’s not interesting to you, read no further. On the other hand, if you want to read further, read on….