Oct 152015
 

There’s a difference. A leer is intrusive, objectifying, nearly hostile. The content is, generally, “I like that. I want that.” Without reference to what that might want. A hungry look, on the other hand, is deeply respectful. Its content is, generally, “Ooh, you look good. Thank you for feeding me visually. I wonder if, I […]

May 092015
 

Skirts, dresses, yoga pants, shorts, what’s not to love? When I was in college, there was a sort of mini-trend among certain men to wear skirts. Not in an explicitly transvestite way, these were men who purported not to get any particular charge, sexual or otherwise, from wearing “women’s clothes,” but who rather simply rejected […]