Aug 172014
 
Harmless?

“I just want to thank you,” Penelope said, as Rose, she, and I were saying good night. “Seriously. I was really nervous coming in, and you made me feel really… comfortable. You know, you could have been super intimidating, but you weren’t. You were… I don’t know, I can’t think of the word. But I […]

Aug 082014
 

The other day, I wrote about how a woman with whom I’ve been flirting on Tinder called me “intimidating.” Here are a few more thoughts on the subject. She wrote, “I definitely think you are very intimidating and all the stories you share make you even more so.  It took me a while to even […]

Aug 072014
 

More on this soon, but…. A woman with whom I’ve been corresponding on Tinder recently told me she finds me intimidating, asked me if I imagine that women are intimidated by me, by the experience(s) I’ve had, by my blog. I suppose the answer is, has to be, yes. This is too bad. It’s too […]

Oct 232013
 

I thrive on it. Ratcheting up the heat, the pressure. Send me something I like. I’ll reward you with a request for more. Send me more, and I’ll reward you with a request for still more. Because that’s just how I roll.