Jul 202013
 

I wrote, recently, about a complicated and interesting (to me, at least) night at a sex party. A reader asked me, in an e-mail, if I had “enjoyed” myself at the party, and it got me to thinking. Part of why I started writing this blog, a big part of what keeps me writing it, […]

Jul 082013
 

There was a birthday to be celebrated. There was a cake, and candles. After round one of fucking, the cake was brought out, the song was sung. It was explained that, for her birthday, earlier that day, the birthday girl had been one of two women at a nine-man gangbang. The other woman? Mary-Anne. See […]

Jun 282013
 
Gangbangs

[a post inspired by recent events, about which more anon] They don’t turn me on. Not pictures of them, or the prospect of attending one. Many men worry that our desire is so great, so powerful, that it will overwhelm or even kill the women at whom it is directed. I do. And my “trick” […]

Oct 172012
 
Something familiar, part 2

Continuation of this post, featuring Jen and Mara. So back we went – we picked up our clothes and shuffled out of the dark little room in which we’d begun fucking and sucking and licking one another. Mara apologized to me: “I felt sort of bad, fucking him before we’ve even fucked – it’s sort […]

Jul 302012
 

I’m in a bit of a relationship/sexuality jag, reading-wise, and right now, I’m reading The Erotic Mind, by Jack Morin. It’s a sort of pop-psychology guide to how to think about eroticism, desire, arousal, excitement, purporting to be a somewhat scientific study of people’s responses to a survey instrument. On the one hand, it’s clearly bad […]