Some weeks ago, I wrote about my insanely hot night with Jen and Mara at Le Trapeze. Well, this is hot – it’s Mara’s Part 1 of the evening, corresponding with this post. I can only hope that we get a Part 2 from her, corresponding to my Part 2. Remember – her first language [...]
Continuation of this post, featuring Jen and Mara. So back we went – we picked up our clothes and shuffled out of the dark little room in which we’d begun fucking and sucking and licking one another. Mara apologized to me: “I felt sort of bad, fucking him before we’ve even fucked – it’s sort [...]
Jen was running late, but her friend, Mara, was on time. I’d never met her before, only seen a picture. Jen and Mara had only just met a few days before, at a workshop. As I wrote here, Jen had met another friend of mine, whom I’ve not named in this blog (mainly because she’s [...]
I’m in a bit of a relationship/sexuality jag, reading-wise, and right now, I’m reading The Erotic Mind, by Jack Morin. It’s a sort of pop-psychology guide to how to think about eroticism, desire, arousal, excitement, purporting to be a somewhat scientific study of people’s responses to a survey instrument. On the one hand, it’s clearly bad [...]
We boarded, with twelve other couples, at 9 pm. We all were dressed in white, head to toe, at the request of our lovely hostess. There was some amusing banter about the boat, safety, etc., it was explained that we would undress when we reached a certain landmark, and we were off. There’s been a [...]
T and I were debriefing about last night. We had a debauched time on a boat in New York harbor, and I wrote up a brief post describing our time. You’ll read a version of that post shortly, but not quite yet. T’s immediate response to my first draft was, “I don’t want our son [...]
A couple of weeks ago, I posted about a recent trip to Le Trapeze. Today, in the comments to that post, I received the following: hi- not much of a comment but more of a bunch of questions. cuz you’ve become my mentor overnight. helps me understand my husband somewhat. or an excuse to discover [...]

We walked down the Chelsea block, curious about just where this party was going to be, just what the cryptically acronymic location is. As we got closer to the address in the e-mail, we saw the synagogue. Could it be? Holy shit. Now, I should say, as a young secular Jew in New York, many [...]

I thought it was a townhouse, but on closer examination, it’s most of the bottom two floors of what appears to be an SRO hotel whose entrance is a block north – the building stretches the length of the block. Le Trapeze’s entrance is on 27th Street, marked by a whimsical, brightly lit (deceptively classy) [...]
Ddevious Delights is the party I’ve been to the most. It’s not perfect, by any stretch, but it’s in many ways the closest to something that I find compelling/comfortable. Le Trapeze is open Wednesday, Thursday, Friday and Saturday nights. BCD, OneLegUp and Chemistry all are infrequent parties – like, once every four to six weeks. [...]
