Oct 172012
 
Something familiar, part 2

Continuation of this post, featuring Jen and Mara. So back we went – we picked up our clothes and shuffled out of the dark little room in which we’d begun fucking and sucking and licking one another. Mara apologized to me: “I felt sort of bad, fucking him before we’ve even fucked – it’s sort [...]

Jul 302012
 

I’m in a bit of a relationship/sexuality jag, reading-wise, and right now, I’m reading The Erotic Mind, by Jack Morin. It’s a sort of pop-psychology guide to how to think about eroticism, desire, arousal, excitement, purporting to be a somewhat scientific study of people’s responses to a survey instrument. On the one hand, it’s clearly bad [...]

Jun 222012
 
Le Trapeze, once more

I thought it was a townhouse, but on closer examination, it’s most of the bottom two floors of what appears to be an SRO hotel whose entrance is a block north – the building stretches the length of the block.  Le Trapeze’s entrance is on 27th Street, marked by a whimsical, brightly lit (deceptively classy) [...]

Jan 132012
 
Sex clubs/parties in New York - Ddevious Delights

Ddevious Delights is the party I’ve been to the most.  It’s not perfect, by any stretch, but it’s in many ways the closest to something that I find compelling/comfortable.  Le Trapeze is open Wednesday, Thursday, Friday and Saturday nights.  BCD, OneLegUp and Chemistry all are infrequent parties – like, once every four to six weeks. [...]