Mar 092013
 
“Check her out!”

The bar was crowded. Filled with 20- and 30-something hipsters. I was definitely old for the place. Véronique sat at the far end of the bar, near the door, sipping her drink, alone. I sat ten or so patrons down, sipping mine. Two 30-something guys were talking behind me. I wasn’t paying attention. I was [...]

Mar 072013
 

Love is to having as desire is to getting. Every toddler, every parent, every ad man, every human knows this. We want to imagine the new thing  -  the shiny red car, the soda, the perfume, the razor, the concert, the whiskey, the necklace – will, finally, make us happy. Aren’t we, just for a [...]

Feb 092013
 
Hot and cold – her side of the story (part 1)

You read my version of the beginning of the evening. Here’s V’s: I get there a few minutes early on purpose– my little way of having some control before the night begins. Being in the bar settles me into the imminence of the date, of being with N., and I crave that feeling. I order [...]

Jan 232013
 
Another night with Véronique (part 1, her version)

You read my part 1 here. Here’s V’s: I received a text informing me he was late just as I was approaching the bar, and he directed me to look at his blog. Same bar as last time, it was mostly empty tonight, save some regulars crowded at one end. In some ways I was [...]

Jan 142013
 
Meet Véronique (part 2)

Véronique went first. So before I say a word, let me observe a couple of moments from the evening that I began describing here, and that she began describing here, that she omitted, whether because they weren’t significant to her, because she’s kind, or because there was a fuck-load of shit to account for, she’s [...]