If I don’t get what I want, it makes me angry. And when I get angry, I get rougher. Is it good for me to get in touch with my anger? You tell me….
I went to a bar mitzvah and had thoughts I couldn’t un-have.
I’m in pain, with little hope of relief. Ever. And it seems to be producing some intense emotions in me.
What my anger feels like, what it does.
Cande gave me a very thorough comment in response to a very terse post of mine. I aspire to respond to all the parts of it in time. But I thought I’d just start at the top. She wrote (I’m summarizing) that men who pay for sex generally have “anger issues toward women.” I don’t […]
If I’m honest, “rough sex” confuses me. I’m capable of rough-ish sex. I can spank, slap, throw around, etc. But truth is, it goes against everything in my soul to do so, and I’m slightly baffled by the whole thing. When I put Rose to use, I know that she has a hankering for a […]
“You really are difficult,” Sofia wrote to me. She’s right, of course. We were talking about how I respond to the sensation of being desired.