Post Archives - My Dissolute Life
- Message to my friend
- Abercrombie and Fitch
- A question, and some answers
- Mean girls
- Thinking about sex
- Eric Schneiderman
- Overheard in a deli
- Paean
- My friend
- Suffering
- Words from Hope
- Happy New Year!
- RIP Roy Moore
- I just learned something
- Paean
- Paean
- A compelling proposition
- Paean
- A list (not hot)
- Technical difficulties
- Mouths
- Envy and rage on the subway
- I like.
- Love in the dust
- Paean
- My desires
- Ugh
- Paean
- My country
- Dating, rejection, abandonment
- Craving
- Paean
- Traveling
- RBF
- Vacation
- Translating Breitbart headlines
- Reassurance
- Looking at you
- Programming note
- Golden showers and the FBI: LBJ vs. DJT
- Lola
- Isabella
- The subway
- Oscar Wilde
- Hunger
- The weight
- My relationship to touch
- Did podcasts steal my mojo?
- Paean
- Paean
- And… we’re back
- A haiku
- A murder of crows, or, paean
- Paean
- Tamora
- Elust 92
- I believe
- Bird by bird
- Paean (from behind)
- Questions
- Paean
- A note, in your handwriting
- What you want
- The good girl pledge
- Actual locker room talk
- How to apologize for failing me
- Actual locker room talk
- And…
- Programming note
- A dark day for the United States
- Elust 90
- Donald Trump’s golden showers
- Top posts
- Resolutions
- How to suck my cock – part 1 (attitude)
- Elust 89
- Paean
- Morning fellatio (a paean)
- Pizzagate
- Perfection
- Olfactory paean
- Please suck my cock
- Happy Thanksgiving
- Fear
- Best sex blogs
- What am I feeling?
- RIP Leonard Cohen
- I am horrified
- Paean
- Work, work, work
- Psychosis and delusion
- Paean
- Donald Trump and libel
- The GOP – party for the century before the last
- Holly the supermodel
- Two Isabellas
- How to give a handjob (or at least, how to give ME a handjob)
- Hamilton
- Wanted: secretary
- Google searches
- More ruminations about porn
- Paean
- Too much to write
- Anger
- Dare
- Moments
- Weiner and me
- Do you think this is actually what they meant?
- Paean
- A second date?
- Dare
- Elust 85
- My wish list
- Sex addiction
- Summer asses
- Anna Camp is V
- Lexy teaches me about a new kind of multiple orgasm
- Donald Trump
- Nastya comes for me
- I don’t like to (have to) ask
- Republicans don’t make me think about sex
- The Republican convention
- I like MILFs
- This will change your understanding of everything
- Adnan Syed granted a new trial
- Paean
- Call me N.
- Paean
- Paean
- Hellian
- Gallery of disappearing ladies
- Black chokers
- Paean
- Allie
- How do you envision me sucking your cock?
- Note to a lurking ghost
- Paean
- Getting to know you
- Isabel is a rock star
- Paean
- The pussy whisperer
- Oh my god!
- Elust #82
- Paean
- Ah-choo
- Cravings
- Paean
- Paean
- Programming note (question)
- Imperfection
- Fascism
- My friend Hy has the top sex blog!
- Slowly, slowly…
- Whining
- Disappointment
- Morning quickie
- Waiting for Lida
- My cock is HARD
- Sometimes
- I’m a blogger of the month
- Paean
- Boots, tights, and a short skirt
- Soft flesh
- Dear J
- Some context on Stephanie
- James Deen, redux
- Dear Smirk
- Paean
- Too funny
- Leggings
- Hello Jersey City
- Donald J. Trump
- Getting started
- A typical commute (I)
- One more thought on James Deen
- Paean
- Stoya/James Deen
- I have a new crush
- e[lust]
- Ella and Scarlett
- I remember Paris
- Paean
- Porcelain doll update
- Writing is like breathing
- Body language and sexuality
- A difference between then and now
- I have a new toy
- I have a date with Sofia
- Male sex bloggers
- Your clothes tell a story
- Update on Sofia
- Another top sex blog listing
- Gentleman is the opposite of feminist?!?
- Top sex blogs
- We’re in a coffee shop
- Your every e-mail makes me hard
- Fantasies of Sofia
- Atonement
- Under 18?
- Meet Lupa
- e[Lust] #74
- A puzzling moment
- Paean
- Stalking
- White or black?
- A lifetime ago
- She’s young and scared
- Um
- Missing Sofia
- Ambivalence
- e[lust] #73
- Stalking Veronique
- Period sex
- I need
- My fear of women’s sexuality
- Porcelain doll
- AM questions
- Chance street conversations
- “Nude” bras
- Paean
- More questions
- More questions
- Testimonial
- Dear unknown woman
- Paean
- Motivation
- Paean
- Sometimes, I just want to be hard
- Hello North Carolina!
- Surprise
- A very short list
- Youth and adulthood
- You watch from afar
- A late-night rendez-vous
- Dispassionate
- Evangelizing
- Bad dates and compulsion
- Getting to know you
- Notes to my older self
- Cycles
- What makes me NOT sexy
- Writing isn’t hard for me
- Entertaining OKC exchange
- Paean
- Do I have a story for you…
- Paean
- Do this for me
- Truer words never spoken
- So much to write, so little time
- That feeling
- On being used
- Question time
- Trois? Ou deux?
- Whoops
- Sofia is driving me crazy
- Panda fucking
- Paean
- Paean
- Dat ass
- Suggested new motto
- My assignment
- Plus ca change…
- An assignment
- You want to inspire me?
- I want to make your pussy wet
- Paean, x2
- Bafflement, or, dissociation
- e[lust] #68
- Sometimes my dick isn’t hard
- Dilemma
- Not me
- Gossip, insecurity
- Drama?
- Anya
- How to pick up chicks
- Sometimes I’m a little immature
- Barber shop acceptance
- Testimonial
- Happy to do my part
- Testimonial
- On using women, part 2
- Question
- I don’t want u
- Emily’s anxiety
- Reading in crowded places
- Fuckers
- Paean
- Bad dates
- “Fifty Shades of Grey”
- What’s a submissive guy to do?
- Sofia’s motivation
- I want so much more
- Quiet
- Fantasy
- I want
- Paean
- Paean
- Sofia’s back
- Search terms
- Withdrawal
- She doesn’t know me
- More on Charlie Hebdo
- New colors
- Pay attention to me
- New Year’s Resolutions
- How I consume your porn
- The women of Snapchat: Emily
- Top ten of all time
- Most popular posts in 2014
- Holidays
- Women I’ve never met: Lauren
- Paean, or abortive pick-up
- Sometimes dates don’t happen
- Sadie
- Eva
- Actual OKC dialogue
- Orgasms a go-go
- A question
- Tinder
- A Tinder message I enjoyed
- Los bibilicos
- Hello sexy bartender
- Paean?
- A first time
- Farewell to Sofia
- Polyamory in the New Yorker
- My agreement with Luna
- My code of conduct
- The sensation I’m reaching for
- Send me pictures
- Hollaback
- A look I like
- Fucking Tinder
- Guys being douchebags
- Paean
- Muscle memory
- Questions and answers
- Kids swearing – what could be better?
- Writing
- Paean
- Interesting tidbit
- I fucking love this headline
- Creep shot
- Paean
- Dogs….
- Two more dissolutes – October
- Rose comes for me
- Quick plug for an interesting project
- Met a hot former basketball player at a swanky bar
- I’m hungry
- Consent
- Just asking
- Human resilience
- Erections are the force of life
- Brief meta-kvetch
- A few days late – Sofia
- My cock as an early warning sign?
- High fever
- RIP Tinder? (Or, “Good riddance, Tinder”?)
- The blister on my tongue
- Multiple paeans
- Poly Pals
- Sofia
- Summer draws to a close
- Sofia
- Negativity
- Closure
- Listen to Rose coming
- Sofia
- You’re sucking my cock
- A new project
- Thank you, Luna
- Buzzkill
- Harmless?
- Another orgasm
- Anonymity and Tinder
- Lately
- Come for me please
- Paean
- Sir, Daddy, Mr. N., and other such names
- Using Rose
- Sofia
- My cock is hard
- @GoDaddy (and @godaddyhelp) sucks
- L is back
- Hipsters – two haikus
- Warnings
- “Bitches be crazy”
- I haven’t been writing
- Paean
- Back
- My virtual pornographer
- Vacation
- Good to know
- Uncertainty, fear, arousal – a fragment from a past date
- More to come
- What it feels like when a woman comes with me inside her, after I have used her
- Tinder advice
- Luna
- iPhone sex blog app
- e[lust] #59
- Happy father’s day
- Gifts
- For your protection
- One possibility
- Paean
- Questionnaire
- Two more dissolutes – June
- Logistics
- More on Luna
- Submit your orgasms
- Luna
- Meet the Amazon
- Tinder date
- Faking it
- Today
- Paean
- Astrology
- Happy holiday weekend
- Update on Sofia (virtual jealousy)
- e[lust] #58
- The brown in her left eye (or, imperfection is sexy)
- Sarah comes for me (six times, quickly)
- Lots to write, no time
- Paean
- Happy mother’s day
- Presumptuous
- Two more dissolutes – May
- Song list
- What are you wearing?
- “You should wear stockings.”
- Narcissism, from a different angle
- Paean – but a little more intimate
- Semantics
- A serious request
- Two more dissolutes – April
- Ddevious Delights, RIP
- Update on what’s popular here at MDL
- Single guys and sex parties
- Sex tips for straight women from a gay man
- My most frequent visitors
- Blogging and anonymity
- I don’t know you well enough to give you a….
- e[lust] #56
- Loud sentences, overheard by (too?) many, in a bar
- Two more dissolutes – March
- Our dissolute list means…
- My friend
- Paean
- Paean
- Controlling Angela
- Angela’s second orgasm
- Orgasms beget orgasms
- e[lust] #55
- Lily
- My wife
- Question
- Newfound pleasure
- Left-handed
- A simple porn-surfing thought
- Distant buddies – an update
- Blog perks #1
- e[lust] #54
- Sign at a sex club
- Timing
- Overheard
- Returning to regularly scheduled programming
- I don’t feel like writing
- Paean
- Clusterfuck
- On being edited
- Glennon Doyle Melton
- Boobday
- Paean
- Thanksgiving in the U.S.
- Update on E
- I like a woman who needs my cock
- Paean – impossibility
- Collecting on ambivalence; sharing intimacy
- Let be be finale of seem
- Paean
- e[lust] #52
- I want to take pictures of you
- More on harm
- Paean
- Fucking hysterical
- Trāyastriṃśa
- Liza and me: a blogger romance, of sorts
- Paean
- Monogamy and rejection
- Blogs I miss
- Insatiability
- Orgasms on the subway
- My Sasha Grey – lips
- The douchebag and the teen party
- Apparently, I’m a sex blogging superhero
- Good girl
- Half a paean
- Approach and avoidance
- Tiny black dresses
- And a fourth crush
- Three Crushes
- An odd fact about me
- Paean
- Paean
- Sitting in bars
- Owning your orgasms
- Update to the reading guide
- Inspiration
- Stalking Alison
- Paean
- Topics
- Monogamish
- Paean, x2
- e[lust] #51
- Tingling
- Paean
- Woopra revisited
- Paean
- Come for me
- Henceforth
- Paean
- Ruination
- And still one more….
- And another one
- Paean
- A thought
- Fun night
- Paean
- Black stockings
- Paean
- I fucking love the subway
- You look just like…
- e[lust] #50
- A quick question for subscribers by e-mail
- Hot GIFs
- Smoking – part 2
- Imagine
- If–
- Paean – contrasts
- Smoking
- Envy
- Watching
- Too much scotch
- Please
- Meditation – the first minute
- Electric pickle
- e[lust] #49
- Paean
- Anticipation
- Paean
- Fantasy deconstructed, take 3
- Sex and power (“House of Cards”)
- Paean
- e[lust] #48
- I love this
- I never
- Enthusiastic new readers
- Far from home
- Paean
- Paean
- Trying to see my blog in London
- The gangbang (Stag at a sex party, part 3)
- Holidays, vacation, etc.
- T, in pictures
- Hottest posts ever
- Fatigue, sun-stroke
- A list
- The boy shot me
- You’ve probably seen this
- Elegy for P (first in a series)
- e[lust] #47
- In my gym
- Paean
- Meditation
- Thank you
- Haiku paean
- Paean
- In (critical) support of Liza
- Cum/come
- Procrasturbation
- Program note
- No comment
- Self-destruction
- Free porn (for me)
- Sandbox app
- (Sex) addiction
- How I wait
- Should we speak?
- On the swingset
- Paean
- Room full of talent (three paeans)
- Submit
- Paean
- Apologies – one more test
- Payday Loans!
- Happy mother’s day
- Onomatopoeia
- Parking
- Rock bands’ll come
- A paean
- The sting of rejection
- Reading guide
- Stalking
- Creep shot
- A gift from a friend
- Diamond (2)
- When you cum….
- A brief complaint about Google
- Some things I like on a Spring morning (below the waist)
- Some things I like on a Spring morning (between waist and shoulders)
- Some things I like on a Spring morning (above the shoulder only)
- Feeling wicked
- Sympathy for the devil
- When bloggers crush
- Pornography research
- e[Lust] #45
- Look at me
- Creep shot
- A thought
- Sounds, voices
- You wanna see something funny?
- Alec Baldwin and Shia Lebeouf
- I want to fuck you
- Gripe to me
- Seven-letter words
- The view from my room
- Stop rape
- Trainers*
- e[lust] #44
- A study in brown
- I love you in leggings
- Waiting….
- The public library
- On unavailability
- Creep shot
- Diamond
- Rabbit rabbit
- Creep shot
- e[Lust] #43
- Ten more ways I want to lick your pussy
- Ten ways I want to lick your pussy
- Ratings
- Writing hotness
- Chatting you up
- Vanity
- And THIS is (really) the last word on safer sex
- e[lust] – the end of an era
- Mad Lib #2
- Sexual availability and math
- Mad Lib
- Laughter from my youth
- One year
- Rabbit Rabbit Rabbit
- From a friend who likes toys
- e[lust] #41
- Starbucks creep shot
- Surprising creep shot
- U2 on my mind
- Storm Surge
- Liza’s twitching back to life…
- Questionnaire: how to handle your…
- TMI Tuesday
- Frisky Friday update
- My Changing Relationship to Google Analytics Over Time
- Frisky Friday #19
- Two requests
- Frisky Friday #18
- Frisky Friday #17
- An aside
- Frisky Friday #16
- Frisky Friday #15
- Too fucking funny
- e[lust] 40
- Frisky Friday #14
- The way my mind works
- On intellectual property
- GIFs in my Tumblr
- Access Consciousness
- Frisky Friday #13
- Frisky Friday #12
- Just for fun
- My tears
- Heartbreak
- Frisky Friday #11
- e[lust] #39
- Frisky Friday #10
- Frisky Friday #9
- You send me….
- Best sex blogs
- A quick note on photos
- Frisky Friday #8
- My blog’s not hot lately
- My friend
- Sexy racer
- OKCEnemies
- Creep shot
- Frisky Friday #7
- My friend–update 2 (status update)
- My friend – update 1 (is this a scam?)
- My friend
- Frisky Friday #6
- Blog mechanics
- Lilly rides again
- Frisky Friday #5
- A whole different kind of orgasm
- My friend
- A friend
- On knowing who reads me
- Frisky Friday #4
- Questions about swing clubs, and Le Trapeze
- Creep shot
- Frisky Friday #3
- Programming note
- Frisky Friday #2
- My new banner
- e[lust] #37
- The most interesting man in the world
- Frisky Friday #1
- Poly cocktails
- Creep shot
- Wisdom vs. Folly
- Unaccustomed silence
- Some things I like, on a warm day
- Another orgasm
- Creep shot
- e[lust] #36
- Have we met? (I guess we must have)
- Creepshot
- Dear Liza and D:
- A contest
- Apologies
- Agony aunt
- Aborted creep shot (subway platform, real time)
- Creep shots
- e[lust] 35
- An apology
- Yoga
- Update on L
- Assignment
- Want
- e[lust] #34
- A quick note on mechanics of the blog
- Secrecy
- A sexy video
- Problems with my blog so far
- Gone fuckin’
- Need
- Cum shot
- Unconscious mutterings
- One more late-night thought….
- What to do when alone
- Santorum
- Recognition
- Not for me
- TMI
- Tall girl, 2
- Note to Slow
- Call for submission/s
- An assignment
- Just a thought
- Your upcoming date
- E-Lust!
- A quick welcome, and an apology (ish)
- Contest update
- Contest update
- Funny sign
- A contest
- Euphoric recall
- Instructions
- Happy New Year
- Instructions
- Merry Christmas
- Win-win
- Ratchet
- Anticipation
- Reverie, inspired by a photo
- And the university administrator is no more
- I do love me some anticipation
- Morning wood
- M and J
- She lives 1,000 miles away
- How I hate the common cold
- Special
- A New Penpal
- Friday Night