My sister blogger, Liza, recently tweeted about this super-hot scene in which James Deen goes down on Nicole Ray. It’s pretty perfect, to my mind (and, judging from the Twitter-verse, to the minds of a number of ladies who were grateful to Liza for her having pointed it out to them).
But, if I may, for a moment, critique James Deen’s cunning linguistic techniques. (Arrogant, presumptuous, I know. Still….)
First, and for the record: I think James is pretty fucking phenomenal – not just at going down, but at fucking, and at being fucked, at being sucked off, too. He’s pretty much my sexual role model. And, I think he’s sexy as hell – this, from a straight guy. Maybe I think he’s hot because he’s sort of my type – not the type I like, the type I am. He’s my height. He’s a bit less muscular than I am (and while I have a good body, I think, I don’t think anyone would describe me as being “musclebound”). So the fact that he pulls off being maddeningly sexy while being non-threatening, physically, is huge. And on top of that, he comes across as being generally dominant in the way that I am – not overpoweringly so, but strong, and sure.
Now – that said. I was disappointed not to see some things in this clip that, to me, would have made it infinitely hotter:
And it all boils down to hands.
For him, cunnilingus seems to be all about the mouth. He used his hands – to great effect, as Liza pointed out in her tweet, for a sort of “half-nelson” hold on Nicole. But he didn’t do several things with his hands that I would have.
He didn’t finger Nicole, using them to penetrate her while his tongue was on her clit.
He didn’t press against her taint, or into her ass.
He didn’t even (notwithstanding his “half-nelson” hold) seem to press down on Nicole’s pubis. Now, in my experience, this is a hugely effective thing to do – to apply pressure on the pubis, rhythmically, and in time with the stimulation I’m giving to the clit, particularly as my partner nears orgasm. And then – once the orgasm comes? More, unrelenting, pressure on the pubis is awesome.
Now I’m a guy. I’m speaking about what appears to be effective, what appears to feel good, what my wife and others have indicated works really well for them.
Ladies, am I right? Would it have been hotter with these additions? Or am I barking up the wrong tree?